By:CD Mohatta This sounds a different kind of title - Do You Understand your Lover? Doesn’t everybody do? Sadly not many of us understand our partners fully. If we had understood our lovers, the rates of separations and divorces would have gone down substantially instead of increasing. You may ask- if I don't understand my love than how are we so good partners? Why he/she enjoys me? Why are we together? Let me talk about these. What does it mean by understanding? It is again a difficult question. Knowing about likes and dislikes does not mean understanding. To understand means to know the values, the life goals and the priorities of a person. To understand means to know what incidences made what impacts on that person. To understand means - you will be able to predict the reaction of your partner at a crucial moment. Can you do that with surety? In the beginning of our relationship, we all talk about good things of life. Our focus is more to please our partner. Our focus is to get more pleasure in their company. we never think about the underlying psychological motivators at that time. After the relationship develop little further, we find that many times we get baffled by what our partner says and vice-versa. That side of his/her character we never knew. If this is something, we can accept easily, we will forget about it, or fissures will develop at this juncture. Not many partners are totally honest with each other about their deepest thoughts, desires and fears. If I fear that you may one day leave me, because I doubt your long term loyalty, will I ever tell you about that fear? Such hidden thoughts create a wall between the partners that can be never crossed. Only few manage to break it. Once you do that and tell everything about yourself and your thoughts and get to know everything about your partner, the relationship will grow stronger. These kinds of relationships were common in the earlier days but are rare now. Article Source: http://www.dailynewarticles.com Writing for romantic greeting cards, screensavers and desktop wallpapers is the hobby of CD Mohatta. You can download romantic screensavers and also solve fun quizzes on love & dating. More Articles from Dating Category: Top Mistakes That Men Make When Looking To Date Russian Women: Part Two Small Man Takes Beauty In Bar Fight Relationships - What to Do When Your Best Friend Likes You Approaching Woman: The Friend Approach Dating Advice For Prolific Men Exquisite Guidelines For Positive Expression For Men Tricking the Tricky: How to Tell If Your Cyber Date is Lying Its Tricky - How To Navigate Internet Dating Safety First in Establishing Online Dating Relationships That Perfect Dating Profile Worthless Adsense Dating Sites Sexual Body Language Signals for Men Online Dating Tips For Beginners Dating Tips, What is the One Thing Woman Hate about Men? All About Seduction Video