How To Share Romance In Your Relationship

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Thursday, 8 January 2009

By:Codrut Turcanu

If someone asks you "What's the best thing about romance in

a relationship?",what would you answer? In my oppinion,the

best thing about romance in a relationship is that it is

shared. While one partner may initiate it, both end up

enjoying any romantic effort. Romance is a relationship

activity and cannot work if both partners aren’t

participants.

When you decide that romance is the way you want to go in

order to improve your marriage or even work towards having

an outstanding marriage, start planning your romance in

advance with both you and your partner in mind. Even if you

are giving a gift to your partner, keep in mind how it will

affect you when you present it to him or her. i'm not

kidding,some gifts are actually meant for both of you

although it is presented to only one partner (ex. Massage

oil). Both of you must enjoy the romance in order for it to

be effective in your relationship.

While being romantic often draws to mind gifts and planning

outings together, you don’t have to spend money in order to

be romantic! You can plan a day where you are completely at

your spouse’s disposal. Devote yourself entirely to your

spouse for an entire day. He or she can ask you to do

chores, rub their feet, give them a massage, watch a movie

you normally wouldn’t watch together or try an interest of

his or hers that you haven’t tried. Your spouse may also

decide that you are best put to use in the bedroom!

When you want to do something extra special, take your

spouse on a local ‘honeymoon’ trip! Find a local hotel that

has a honeymoon suite and book it for one night. Do it up

right and make sure it is stocked with champagne,

strawberries and whipped cream. Have flowers and your song

available to play in your room. For her, have new lingerie

laid out on the bed. For him, have new lingerie laid out on

the bed. For an extra special twist, pack a bag for your

spouse, hire a sitter if necessary and tell him or her that

you’re going out for the evening. Blindfold your spouse and

lead him or her to your honeymoon suite.

Find an affordable card shop or see if your local greeting

card store offers any type of multiple card purchase

discounts. Buy as many cards for your spouse as you can.

Store the cards and send them to your spouse intermittently.

You can choose to send them every few months, every month,

every week, each day or every waking hour!

Take the time to create your own loving edible baked goods

for your spouse! Make heart shaped cookies, a heart shaped

cake or make your own heart shaped chocolates. Find a heart

shaped bowl, pop popcorn to serve in the bowl and spend the

entire day watching romantic movies together.

No matter which one of this ideas you will use for special

occasions,always remember that it doesn’t really matter when

or how you do something romantic as long as you do it

together.

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