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1). Anger and Hurt; another lonely place! Being human can really be challenging, to say the least. We feel emotions with every breath we take, every move we make. Some emotions are so sweet that we never want to lose that feeling. Other emotions cause us so much anger and hurt that we are paralyzed with pain. Our minds use anger as a memory of a hurt that we have experienced. ... 2). A Fitter, Firmer, Self-esteem A Fitter, Firmer, Self-esteem 3). "You are killing US with YOUR jealousy" So far I have enlightened the world with my thoughts on jealousy and self-esteem. I want to clear up any misunderstandings that may have some male people thinking that I am targeting only women here. Jealousy and self-esteem issues also can imprison men as well as women. No one is excused from real human emotions. Emotions know no face, color, size... 4). Tips on Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Orgasms! If you are wondering what I am going to share with you, then you are definitely in need of this article, especially after reading my teaser up there. I have shared many of my thoughts with you during the past few months. Mostly about females why`s and woe`s. I have had many men request that I give them more information on exactly what women like in... 5). Walking on egg shells ! Walking on egg shells! Has anyone ever told you, that's how they feel around you? If they have, it's a huge red flag and one that should not be ignored. It needs to be dealt with immediately. Relationships are a tough challenging part of our lives. Especially when dealing with matters of the heart. As truly good as they make you feel, ... 6). Mind Games! Have you ever been caught up in a thought that will not let you out? Escape is not an option. What was a simple drip in your pool of thoughts, quickly turned into an ocean of tidal waves rolling into each, over and over again.This is what it feels like to not have positive control over your mind. Our minds often repeat hurtful thought... 7). The Ugliness of Low Self Confidence! How fine life would be if we all felt like a million dollars 24 hours a day,7 days a week! We would never, ever feeling like we have woken up in a pit, full of self confidence lows, having the energy to just jump out of bed and meet the day with loads of enthusiasm and knowing that we are going to get through the day without worries of any kind. Th... 8). Give the Gift of Self esteem for Christmas! Give the Gift of Self esteem for Christmas! 9). Being Dumped, just plain sucks! Hurricanes really suck. Even if they do not reach you, they still threaten your safety net. Florida survived last years attack of Mother Nature, so we are a little more courageous this year. Not much, but a little. I would love to meet the person that pissed her off (Mother Nature). Not only does she get even, but she does it with a vengeance. That... 10). Jealousy : A lonely place to be! You really have to experience this emotion to understand its strong hold on a persons mind. Not only their mind, but their entire being. I have been asking and asking questions regarding jealousy from people that experience it and people that have to deal with it through someone close to them. I have written an article and... 11). Hate the Abuser, not the Abused! Abuse is the most horrible attempt at power that I have ever researched! This is why: The shame that is felt by an abused person is so deep that it takes years to unfold, then years to put in a safe place. Some never get that far. They turn to drugs, alcohol, and even eating disorders that tear their physical being apart. Some even re... 12). Just love me! Just LOVE me, like a fat kid loves cake! Have you ever felt like that? When I first heard that, it hit me like a ton of bricks. To be in LOVE like that or to be loved like that would just rule forever. Is that not what we are all yearning for? Do we not seek out LOVE from the second we breathe as an infant? We search our parents eyes f... 13). Why do Pretty Girls CRY? As you can see this is going to be a very controversial article. Hey, I never, ever have anything but, controversial thoughts. what can I say? I was born this way. BITE ME! Anyway, as I was drying my hair, my brain started to work. (scary!!) I was thinking about a few comments that I had heard from guys here and there regarding, "Why P... 14). Feel Good Tips!! Feel Good Tips!! 15). Walls Of Communication! Matters of the heart are a true mystery to all involved. In order to make a commitment to a relationship, it takes strength and trust in another. When we trust our partner and we receive trust back, it is a very nice feeling. One should never betray or play games with that trust. Those games usually get caught, and a broken trust will surely create... 16). Fight for your Self-Worth! Self-Worth; this is a word that is so much easier to say, and spell then it is to feel! Why do so many women feel that they have no self-worth? How did they lose it? Is it because of the way the world has portrayed the perfect woman today? Is it because someone took it from them? Is that t... 17). Survival Survival is one of the most demanding and challenging issues that we face as humans! Survival challenges us through many different issues such as: child abuse, sexual abuse, birth, death, job loss, health problems, low self-esteem, relationship ups and downs, parenting, deceptions, breakdowns, poverty, natural disasters, education, add... 18). Acceptance! I was first thinking , when exactly does one start to yearn for acceptance? Is it when we are born? Is it when we first feel the pain of non-acceptance? Is it when we begin to be challenged in sports? Is it when we fall into the ever talked about `peer pressure`? Is it when we fa... 19). Battles against Media's idea of "The Perfect Woman" The never ending battle against the Media and it`s bogus idea of the "PERFECT WOMAN". *sigh* Lately I have been studying the media, reading articles, watching news, and looking for anything that I can find to make me feel that there is still hope for our world. If you have read any of my past blogs, then you will already know where my... 20). WOMEN (What We Are) WOMEN are a good thing! WOMEN are soft! WOMEN are sensuous! WOMEN are sexy! WOMEN are sweet tasting! WOMEN are fun to play with! WOMEN are pleasing to the eye! WOMEN are strong! WOMEN are child bearers! WOMEN are much needed mates! 21). CONTROL...who exactly is being controlled? I was boggled as to what exactly I wanted to share with my article lovers tonight. I had a plan, then one of my members commented in my self esteem website. Well, in short, my mind would not let her comment rest. It was a sentence regarding, "CONTROL". Here it is: "If I can’t trust my spouse to keep their sexual promise to me why am I... 22). Food addiciton! "Hi, I have had a weight problem all my life. But I think it is more of a pleasure problem It is also a self esteem of issue. Food was always a reward or "to keep me happy" kind of thing. Food is a happy gathering kind of thing... holidays.. going out to eat..sweet cakes on my birthday. Even as a baby I am sure that I was given food when I wasn't g... 23). SEX, Self esteem, and ME ! Hmmm, my thoughts tonight will definitely be different from most of my blogs. I have touched on so many emotions in the past and I am still feeling the need to share yet another. I have spoken on women's issues mainly, yet trying to keep men on a fair plain, mainly due to the facts and studies that more women experience self-esteem issues and jealo... 24). FEELINGS!!!! FEELINGS!!!! 25). How do I reach an orgasm? Is it OK to fake an Orgasm? Is there something wrong with a woman that has not experienced an orgasm? These are a couple of questions that I have been getting asked more and more, so I thought why not address them through my articles? As much as I have written this for my ladies, men you can benefit from reading this litt... 26). Habits! Habits! 27). Self-Love = Positive Self-esteem! Self-esteem issues seems to be one of the strongest emotions that challenge many women today. It has become a woman's first worry when she awakens, and her last worry before she sleeps. It is said that we are all born with a natural self-esteem, but through the worlds concerns about power and control, we have been trained to worry abou... 28). The Power of Self-Esteem! Why are there so many women haunted by a low self-esteem ? I have shared many thoughts through out my articles on feelings, jealousy, worries, fears, and self-esteem. Every day I receive mail from all over the world from women suffering from a lack of inner power to get through the day, due to a low self-esteem. It does not only affect... 29). Be His Gift of Self-esteem for Christmas Be His Gift of Self-esteem for Christmas 30). To Trust or not to Trust ! Trust is something we learn as very small babies. We trust the first person that we bond with and it grows from there. Have you ever noticed how cool kids are? They trust every little thing we say. They rarely question us when we tell them something. Believing our every word; and why not? They have not been exposed to mistrust yet, not... 31). ROAR with CONFIDENCE!! I am back, after a few days of vacationing with family. Weather was awesome, the beach was full of nasty jelly-fish, yuk! All-in-all, life has been good. I hope life has been as good for all of you. Well I will start this article out by telling you that I did ROAR with CONFIDENCE when I was on vacation. I went to the beach several time... 32). Her Cries for help are Real!! Throughout my dealings with women from all over the world, I have met so many that are in a prison of pain and frustration. Through my website, they search desperately for a way out of this prison. They want so desperately to be heard. Her Cries for help are genuine.She is not inventing her worries, nor is she so bored with her life th... 33). SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! SHAME! 34). PAT me please!! PAT me please!! 35). Self-esteem Builds Female Athletes Beads of sweat roll down her forehead as she rubs a very prominent muscle in her calve. Her breathing is deep and hard but steady as regains her focus to another place in order to numb the pain. She reaches into a place in her mind where she has stored an energy that only a dedicated athlete has come to know. An energy that will take her that extra... 36). Oh.....to be FEMALE!!! Being human is not an easy task, we tend to say these days, but I think it has been that way since day 1 of mankind. But being FEMALE, now that's a challenge and a half. I have never been a guy, but from what I see and don`t get me wrong guys, I know that you have your hands full trying to co-habitate with us females. Se...